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 historians have been on the demise of the system is worth debating the issue and no conclusion, this because of the limited learning ability to research this issue Guer can only do a simple summary. But I still shallow shallow, try On this issue as follows, the reader is lots of criticism of correction.
for Yao, Shun the times, can be regarded as legends of the times can also be ancient history if the "Aspirations" that as a messenger material, written into official history. Guer, from which we can conclude that: For the ancient legends are true are false, or the authenticity of the phase, of them must not go to extremes, according to classical literature that records the history books combined with modern archaeological evidence, that material seen on the ground floor land use "double law of evidence" to be treated objectively. Since I is limited, so the following account of what their predecessors only superficial system of views on the demise and his a little experience:
(1)  that the demise is the existence of a democratic system
times on the Five Emperors " Abdication "system recorded in the" Book of History? Dian "" Mencius? Chapter 10 000 "and the" Historical Records? Biography of Five "in both narratives, most modern people as the embodiment of its spirit of democratic elections, a primitive political system, that system is our demise have been practiced during the ancient Yao and Shun as a leader following the allocation system be as inheritance system as the highest leader. According to "Historical Records? Wudi, "recorded 70 years of the reign of Yao's successor to find good, ask to Si Yue, Si Yue recommended Shun, Yao Bian Qiang two women light yellow, the British woman married to Shun, visit three years before allowing them to participate in public Shun by appointment only after another two years after the "Photo of the political line of the Son of Heaven\The narrative from this case, we seem to see traces of democracy. That is "virtuous," "give way" "selection\
Similarly, experiencing dramatic changes in the Warring States period "demise" as a doctrine that wars are frequent, contending the era to become a hot topic. Guer in the process of contending that philosophers are the "abdication theory" views are diverse. Let's look at the ruling Chinese thought two thousand years of Confucian scholars:
"Analects of Confucius? Yan Yuan article "" Shun had the world, selected from the public, held Gao Yao, devoid of virtue disappeared! "" Mencius? 10000 Chapter on ":" 10 000 Chapter said: Yao and Shun to the world, there are various? Mencius said: No. What, then shun those who have the world what with? Said: days with. Days, with those earnest natural fate of almost? said: No. days without saying that, in order to show the line and things just carry on. ... ... Formerly, in the days of Yao and Shun recommended by the day, violence from the people and the people affected by the, twenty years before and days are not made to lines and things said the only carry on. ... ... Yao collapse, three years of mourning complete, Shun avoid Yao's son in South River to the south, the world is nobility pilgrims not of Yao's son and Shun, defendant prison were not of Yao's son, and the Shun and Acura are not son and Acura Acura Yaocheap ugg boots Shun, twenty years before the heavens. husband and then of China, Jian Yan emperor bit. door to the palace of Yao, the son of Yao force is usurped the throne itself, not days, and also. "
Confucius or Mencius has Confucianism is a system advocated by demise, works from various schools in the language they will know, this is not surprising, we know that the core idea of Confucianism is "Li" "benevolence," two essential Confucian carry out the "lost her way not impose on others, "" Benevolence, "claims benevolent, emphasizes etiquette, benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and trust, in the eyes of the Confucian scholars, Yao, Shun and Yu's demise system is the" common ground "in a true portrayal of the world. "Road trip too, could be merged into selecting and energy, good neighborly relations, freedom and equity in our country, not only the child his son to die a dignified death, some with strong, young a director, Honesty and trust have been well raised. "(" Book of Rites? Li Yun ") shows that this" common ground "social" According to the "selection wise and the able advocacy of the Confucian ritual system, which should be abdicating the throne in ancient times there is some effect , of course, scholars have also pointed out that this is not the demise system, If you want to know the detail can be found in "History Studies," in May 2006 No. 3 Mr. Liang Weihong to write an article, "Guodian Jane's demise Slips Doctrine Demise in the history of ancient Chinese system. "
Mr. Jin Jingfang also said: "Tang Yu Chan, Xiahou Yin and ours is also the meaning of one, it is the words of Confucius, found in" Mencius? million chapter on. "view of this statement with the 'common ground''off' The view was unanimous, and are accurately reflected the historical facts. 'Zen' is a democratic election, 'following' is hereditary succession. Zen, following a different, reflecting the two different historical era. "[1]
Mohist major advocacy Wisdom of non-attack, then it is clear that even if we do not see their writings we can know that they are supposed to be Abdication System. "In ancient times held Yao Shun Yang in the service of the glen, granted the government, the world is flat." ("Mo? Tse on") while Mohist of the Yao, Shun and Yu able to participate in social production, but also all praise. "Mo? Tse in the "set:" In ancient Shungeng Alexander, Tao Riverside, fish Glazer. Yao Yang obtained the services of the glen, held that the Son of Heaven, and then the world of governance, political world of the people. "We can see Mohist to Yao and Shun Yu personally involved in social production, and the common people hard in the fields, and management of world politics, that they are worthy and. So who are also advocating abdication ink system.
(b)  that Yao and Shun "demise" and "usurper" and "De bad" in Confucianism and scholars strongly parallel
beautify "demise\Such as "Han Fei" records: "big body who is not difficult to respect the position of base below, while the small Gaojue to facilitate the re-lu. Fu Hong Kong Adam s Peerage and heavy but the party Xing Mi Chung, meaning there are treacherous, but is more a traitor said, they said: 'ancient monarch and out of the so-called primary, non-succulent have and long to order also. the party and its structure, poly Lane family, forced the murderer while seeking its benefits also.' He said: ' He know these are? 'by saying:' Shun forcing Yao, Shun and Yu force, put Jie Tang, King Wu, the four kings, and the ministers are also killing the leader and comfort, while the reputation of the world. police four kings, love, corruption was one meaning also; his actions, violence of the soldiers also. However, four kings from the extensive measures also, but the world that large Yan; from the obvious names are, and the world known as Ming Yan. the prestige is sufficient clinical world, Lee is sufficient K-Swiss, the world of men. ' "(" Han Fei? that the suspect papers ") from the Han Fei's discourse, we can see, Shun, Yu, Tang, King Wu This is the history of the killing of four of its monarch, Hong Kong Adam, however, has turned the whole world admired the four people. Their acts are acts of violence, but they are wise people in the world has praised the move. Their behavior enough to make the world profitable, Guer the world have followed their behavior. In fact, this is not also a kind of usurpation of behavior?
"Ancient Bamboo Annals" records:
"Yao of the dynasty, Germany decline to shun the prisoners.
prisoners Shun Yao, Zhu Fu Yan Sedan so do not meet with the parent.
Shun Yao prison in Binh Duong, take the throne. "
records from the above we can see that Yao was in the dynasty the throne passed to his son Danzhu, and shun the force is very powerful, but has an excuse for Yao Shun damage the demise of democracy system, while the prisoners Yao, banished Danzhu, can be seen as "usurped" the throne. For this statement, we can look at Mr. Wang Yuzhe of view: He believes that this period in ancient times, the transition from primitive society to slave society going through a transition period or transition. "Specifically, in the end of primitive society, slave society of private ownership, exploitation, class and slaves, and other new factors have emerged at the same time, old primitive society to continue to work in a number of principles, has to wait until the slave society of the new factors to over or supersede the old factor, the social system into a qualitative change only the quantitative, slave before becoming production. Therefore, we determined the social system, ... ... our history, from the Tang Yao, Shun, Yu to business early, that is, the transition period. "[2] He considered that Yao, Shun exists during the" demise "of" usurping "side by side, because this phase is in the tribal chiefs from the" Successfully Passes Throngh Longhai "system into" mass zi "a reflection of the transitional period.
this regard, the reader can also refer to Mr. Wang Yuzhe in the "history teaching" in 1986 published an article "Abdication and the usurpation of the new understanding of the coexistence of two legends" article, but can also refer to Huazhong University of Science and Technology, Social Science Edition May 2001 Volume 15 Mr. Xu Zuxiang book, "From the Abdication System to the Hereditary System - Origin of the State of China during the early evolution of political power" article.
The Warring States Period "abdication theory" once again because the focus of special historical features of the Warring States period determined. Compete in Minao compete with the Warring States period, Showdown unified China during the dispute before the big, big change during this period, the gradual growth of the scholar class, all want their own doctrine was established as the rule of the rulers then in political ideology the stage to show their talent. Fully its word, the Warring States period, whether various school beautification demise Ye Hao, against the demise worth mentioning, both theory and lay the foundation for their own publicity. Guer, in this beautification initiative of Demise to achieve certain political aims, the Warring States period was twice the actual operation of Abdication:
Maling battle defeated Wei Qi, Wei King Hui of that thoroughly discredited, Wilson no, its phase state Hui Shi Gu Er said: "The country s sake, the Sage will also, if this is really not Mr. Gua Ren would like to have to pass the country." Hui Shi politely refuse, King Hui of Wei goes on to say: "this country of Gua Ren Total who have, and pass the Sage, the people of the corruption fight heart just carry on. willing to listen to Mr Gua Ren this also. "Hui Shi said:" If Wang Yan, the SHI can not but listen to carry on. Wang is also the Lord of solid Wan Cheng, to country and people still can still, today is also applied commoner, Wan Cheng of the country and can address the, This is just the heart of corruption are even more. "(" Lu? trial should view? unyielding articles ") from the surface Both were speaking monarch and his subjects for the sake of national Sajik to Xianxiang so, but the actual analysis shows that only a political deal only through Jun Chenxiang so, two can get good name in all the earth, Gains demise reputation in Xian, 2 States must address the moral reputation.
315 years BC, Yan Wang Kuai give sub-phase of the country, the child of an ambitious people, Chatteris Yao demise of Germany, Yan Wang Kuai would really be courteous to the son of the throne, but Yan Wang Kuai Prince faction against internal disorder caused Yan, Qi and later led to the invasion, resulting in almost perished in the tragedy of Yan State. At this time of the abdication and the Yao, Shun Yin essence for the period is different, then the ruler is the false demise of the reputation and the effectiveness of integrated access to fame and fortune only.
this paper, see "Social Front" in June 2002 Luo Xinhui of "comity and the demise - of the Zhou Dynasty" to "changes in social attitudes," the article, and ACADEMIC April 1999 Professor Wang Shumin's "Yao , Shun and Yu demise of the historical truth "article. Guer not elaborate on this.
(c)  that the "demise" system is not democracy
agree with this view of the scholars whose views are listed below:
Mr. Xie Weiyang said: "There were a few scholars have written that the end of the prehistoric society political organization is centralized Tribe, rather than democratic tribal alliance. "(" Chinese in the formation of Tribe "Sevyan East China Normal University in 1987)
Mr. Yang Anping in the" History of China "1990 in April published a "Abdication of the legends of - on the national symbol of the formation of" a text, that "summer is not a country but a system of tribal chiefs coalition against Abdication system is democracy, that the era of Yao and Shun" most of the tribal practice 'Fusi child following, brother to younger brother' of the hereditary system of chiefs, while the post of chief and tribal alliance, mainly by the tribal forces to competition or violence to achieve. Yao, Shun and Yu Abdication system errors in the legend were Confucian scholars landscaping, exaggerated 'ancient history'. Called for in the 'German', but let the 'potential' misunderstandings. "
" Historical "No. 6, 1998, Mr. Tang Yeyi of an article entitled" On the nature of the system of Demise "article, that the demise of the system does not exist under the bottom-up democratic elections, but also does not reflect the form of democracy. particularly in the "imperial" bit inheritance, the only incumbent himself as a successor of his choice who should be long-term trial, study and training, rest assured hand over power to him, or on another cultivated. Therefore, it is a person designated by the successors to the throne system, the scope of a personal dictatorship. for this article, I think the author seems extreme, with its present form to analyze the phenomenon of the distant history of Qin, it is not history The dynamic view of history. because of the angle from the study demise of democracy, with both the vision is modern, with a modern voice to the limit Abdication system to study the history and dynamically to the System of Demise is a very complex Historical Change of the problem. Abdication then there should be an existing democracy, not the first definition of democracy sets the system's phenomenon in the demise of democracy. When to this that my argument was not sufficient, there continue to be the future of learning .
Abdication system can be said about the ancient history of China's vital issues, but so far, historians still can not explore what happens to its truth. Indeed, many historians question is inconclusive, but the history Home and historians are still pen stopped working, hard to explore the historical facts in the first line. Let us look forward to it get to the bottom of that day. Finally, the sentence to the end of Qu Yuan's Little Man "The road is long Come, I will be up and down the quest. "
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